As the world of shopping swirls around you in the weeks ahead take
a moment out, take a deep breath, and think back to one gift you
received. One which, when remembered, still warms your heart or
makes you smile. Remember what it was?

When you are looking at the ads - and thinking about the frenzy of
rushing around to buy things. Pause. For sure the ads want us to go
for bigger, better and more.

But what do you remember loving? Maybe talk about this with folks
over dinner -or tea or while going somewhere in the car. What do
your friends or family members recall?

My friend Max says that guys remember food gifts and that Moms
love framed photographs. True for you? My husband likes an
“AT YOUR SERVICE DAY”coupon which he can cash in any time in the
year. I love cut flowers always … and when they are done they go
into the compost to feed more flowers.

My perspective may well be a bit skewed as I spend so much time
helping people get rid of stuff that doesn’t bring them joy. But
that’s who I am. How bout you?
Wishing you a wonderful and peaceful December…

I’ve been thinking that for most of us, the weeks ahead only get
busier. So here’s my proposal

THIS WEEK - Take time with friends and family to chat together
about their and your true priorities. Try discussing which of your
traditions are the most meaningful to you; which activities give
you the most joy. Think about what would you like to do
more of or less of THIS year.

What do you really want to share together in December 2007?

Let it be an experiment… Your decisions can be for just this one
year. Try something different. See how it feels.

Let us know what happens!

With all best wishes, Joanna

p.s. I’ve decided to try posting my tips on my Breathing Space blog as
well as sending them directly to subscribers. That way you can easily share your commments and questions and get ideas from fellow declutterers. Of course you are always welcome to contact me directly.

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